I remember when I was in 2nd grade I am always alone and can't get along with my classmates. In recess time, I always run to the telephone booth and call my mom to update her with everything. I was a loner. Sometimes, I got bullied by real assholes and one time I was really pissed and I called my mom crying and I wanted to go home so badly. But guess what? A year after that, those bullies turned out to be my bestfriends. One of them even talks to me and we've been friends for almost a decade now but I know we missed a lot about each other because we haven't been close for 7 years.
I always envy people who have like a REAL best friend. Childhood friends to best friends to eternity. They'll be together forever and understand each other. I had like almost 10 different best friends every 2 years I guess and I know, it's horrible. It's like I don't have a stick to one best friend who really understands me in all the things I am going through. Sometimes, I feel so insecure talking to them about my problems because I know their lives are just a bed of roses.
A best friend for me is someone who is not afraid to make you smile if you are depressed, is not afraid to stand up for you if someone is pissing you off, is someone who will protect you from every temptation the evil people are doing, is someone who gives you advices if you are confused and clueless about the things you should do, is someone who will be your shoulder to cry on. Those are just some definition of a true best friend.
We don't need to be famous to have real friends. We don't need to produce a reality show to be someone's best friend and certainly, we should not be friends with someone that you secretly hate and start talking shit about them, that is just hypocritical.
Enjoy life with your true friends. If you have one or a thousand -- you are considered BLESSED.
wow, what a touching blog.
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